Category: Dominican Life

Personally Speaking~The Feast of Our Holy Father, St Dominic

On this Feast Day of our Holy Father, St Dominic, we hear from a few of our members as they express what being a member of The Order of Preachers Independent means to them…

The Very Rev Lady Sherwood,OPI

Bound by Vows, Set Free by Grace: What the Order of Preachers Independent Means to Me

​To live as a Dominican Priest and Solemnly Vowed Sister in the Order of Preachers Independent means embracing a deeply personal sacred calling—one centred on my pursuit of Truth (Veritas) while extending radical, unconditioned love to a hurting world. It is how I bridge rich historical tradition with my daily, living faith, carving out a space where ancient devotion meets modern compassion.

​What This Vocation Means to Me:

​My Preaching Through Presence and Word: As a member of the Order of Preachers (Ordo Praedicatorum), preaching is not merely what I do from a pulpit; it is the fundamental rhythm of my life. It means witnessing to grace through active listening, pastoral care, and speaking truth to systems of hardship.

​My Commitment Sealed in Vows:

My solemn vows are not a restriction, but my profound freedom. They anchor my heart entirely to God and the service of His people, offering me a daily invitation to live simply, love purely, and serve obediently to the Holy Spirit’s guidance.

​My Freedom in the Order of Preachers Independent:

Standing within an independent Dominican tradition allows the charism of St Dominic to flourish in spaces that might otherwise be overlooked or underserved. It grants me the pastoral liberty to meet every soul precisely where they are, offering sacraments, solace, and spiritual accompaniment without barrier or hesitation.

​My Harmony of Contemplation and Action:

My Dominican life flows from personal contemplation (Contemplata Aliis Tradere—to contemplate and to give to others the fruits of contemplation). In my silent prayer, study, and reflection, I find the strength and wisdom required to step outward as a priest and sister into the labour of pastoral love.

My Sanctuary of Grace:

​Ultimately, walking this path within the Order of Preachers Independent means being a living signpost to God’s expansive, unfailing mercy. It is my honour to carry this ancient torch into contemporary life, offering a sanctuary of prayer, spiritual direction, and sacred presence to all who seek peace on their journey.

​Let me close with a Scripture and Prayer:

​”If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” — John 8:31–32

​A Prayer of Commitment and Grace:

​Heavenly Father, God of Truth and Love,

​We give You thanks for calling us to walk in the footsteps of St Dominic—to contemplate Your holy Word and to proclaim Your grace to a world in need of hope.

​Grant me the wisdom to seek Your truth in all things, the courage to speak it with gentleness and warmth, and the humility to embody Your boundless compassion. Anoint my ministry as a priest and sister, that my vows may be a living sign of Your freedom, and my presence a sanctuary of peace to all whom You place in my care.

​Keep my heart rooted in prayer, my mind open to Your wisdom, and my hands ready to serve. May all that I preach, pray, and do reflect Your unfailing light, guiding souls closer to Your loving heart.

​Through Jesus Christ, our Lord and Great High Priest.

​Amen.

The Rev Frank Bellino,OPI

A Preacher’s Reflection: 5 Years with St. Dominic and a Roadmap for the Road Ahead

​​Today, August 8th, as we celebrate the Feast of St. Dominic, I’m pausing to look back—and more importantly, to look forward.

​Today marks my fifth year as a Dominican. Reaching this milestone has given me time to reflect on the long road that brought me here, but even more than that, it has given me clarity on where we need to go next.

​If you know me, you know I’ve spent almost my entire adult life wearing a uniform. For 23 years, it was the uniform of the United States Air Force. After that, for 44 years, it was the badge and uniform of a Texas Peace Officer. When you spend decades putting on a uniform every single morning, you learn pretty quickly what it actually means. You don’t wear it to look special or stand out. You wear it because it stands for something bigger than you—duty, integrity, protection, and a commitment to serve.

​Looking back, I realize St. Dominic was quietly influencing my life long before I stepped into the Order—even before I realized I was a Dominican at heart. All those years on patrol, listening to people on their worst days, standing up for what was right, and trying to bring peace to chaotic moments—that was God shaping a preacher’s heart in me.

​Today, five years into this Dominican journey, the uniform looks different, but the mission is the same. When I put on the habit, it’s my daily reminder of who I belong to and who I represent: Jesus Christ.

​St. Dominic built our Order over eight centuries ago on one core word: Veritas—Truth. But for Dominic, Truth was never a cold set of rules or an argument to win. Veritas is a Person. Truth is Christ Himself, preached with a heart overflowing with compassion.

​Looking back gives us gratitude, but faith requires a roadmap. As your pastor and a brother in St. Dominic, here is the pathway I’m setting for myself and inviting our whole parish family to walk together:

​Our Dominican Roadmap Ahead

​1. Contemplate First, Then Share (Contemplare et contemplata aliis tradere)

Before we can speak Truth to a noisy world, we have to sit with Christ in silence. Our roadmap starts with prayer—grounding our homes, our parish, and our daily decisions in Scripture and the Sacraments so we actually have His light to give away.

​2. Preach Through Action and Compassion

Preaching isn’t limited to the altar on Sunday morning. Every day in our community, on the job, and around the family dinner table, we preach by how we listen, how we forgive, and how we stand up for those who are hurting or forgotten.

​3. Stand Firm in Veritas with Love

The world doesn’t need more noise or harshness; it needs real, authentic Truth delivered with genuine warmth. We are called to be steady, reliable witnesses of the Gospel—uncompromising in our faith, but endless in our charity.

​Wearing the habit reminds me every day that the duty continues. As we celebrate St. Dominic today, let’s not just honor history—let’s live it. Let’s take this roadmap, step out with courage, and bring the light of Christ into every room we walk into.

​Holy Father St. Dominic, pray for us!

The Rt Rev Michael Beckett,OPI

Becoming a Dominican, for me, isn’t a thing you do, it is recognizing who you are, to whom you belong, which is reflected in all that one does, in fact, do. St. Dominic built his Order on the Four Great Pillars of the Dominican Charism: Truth, Community, Prayer, and Study.

We continually strive for Truth, not only to be truthful, but to recognize that what is ‘truth’ for one person might not be “truth” for another. We strive to recognize truths within ourselves and what that means for our spiritual life and the lives of all with whom we come into contact.

We must recognize that Community is not just our nearest and dearest, but that the concept of “community” is recognizing that every person, regardless of ethnicity, skin color, sexuality, political persuasion, socio-economic status or anything else that may divide us, is to be included in our own personal communities. We know and live with the understanding that there is not one person on this earth, nor will there ever be any persons on this earth, that God does not love, and there can be no limits to our love of God’s people.

The Apostle Paul teaches us in his First Letter to the Church at Thessalonica, Chapter 5, Verse 16 that we are to “pray without ceasing.” This does not mean that we are constantly on a “spiritual phone call” with our Lord, but that we recognize that everything we do and say should be done for the glory of God. You’ve heard it said that folks should strive to “be the best you can be.” Praying without ceasing recognizes that not only must we be the best we can be, we be that best in order to praise God. Even the most mundane tasks, if well done and completed, or even attempted, with the attitude that “in our work we praise,” we are praying. Keeping this uppermost in our minds helps us to do better, to be more faithful, and to be more loving.

In our quest for Truth, Community, and true Prayer, we recognize that we must Study. If we are to be our best, we must study how to achieve that best. If we are to pray continually, we must know how to pray; if we are to build Community, we must learn who the people in our communities are and what is needed, and we must, beyond any shadow of a doubt, know the Truth of what we say, do, and believe.

It is through the lens of these Four Pillars that we, as Dominicans, live and breathe the love that Jesus taught us. Just as there are no limits to God’s love, there should be no limits to ours. The old hymn, “Give of Your Best to the Master” by Howard B. Grose, sums it up nicely:

Give of your best to the Master,
give Him first place in your heart;
give Him first place in your service,
consecrate every part.
Give and to you shall be given-
God His beloved Son gave;
give Him your heart’s adoration,
give Him the best that you have.

Give of your best to the Master,
nought else is worthy His love;
He gave Himself for your ransom,
gave up His glory above;
Laid down His life without murmur,
you from sin’s ruin to save;
give Him your heart’s adoration,
give Him the best that you have.

I will leave you with two quotes from St. Dominic.

Arm yourself with prayer rather than a sword; wear humility rather than fine clothes.

I am not capable of doing big things, but I want to do everything, even the smallest things, for the greater glory of God.

Let us pray:

God of Truth you gave your church a new light in the life and preaching of our Father Dominic. Give us the help we need to support our preaching by holy and simple lives. We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, God, forever and ever. Amen.

Beyond Secondhand Faith: The Honest Witness of Saint Thomas~The Rev Frank Bellino,OPI

Today, the liturgical color is red as we celebrate the Feast of Saint Thomas the Apostle. That red isn’t just a liturgical color; it is the color of fire, the color of the Holy Spirit, and the color of the blood spilled by the men who stood on the front lines to build the early Church. It represents the ultimate sacrifice of a soldier for Christ.

Now, history has given Thomas a raw deal. We call him “Doubting Thomas.” But as Dominicans—as members of the Order of Preachers—our entire mission is built on one word: Veritas. Truth. And when you look at Thomas through the lens of truth, you don’t see a cynic. You see a man who wanted a direct encounter. He didn’t want second-hand faith; he wanted to see the Master face-to-face.

When the other disciples told him, “We have seen the Lord,” Thomas stood his ground with absolute, unfiltered honesty. He wasn’t going to fake it. He refused to give a superficial nod to something his heart hadn’t reconciled.

Look at how Christ responds to that honesty in today’s Gospel. Jesus doesn’t cast him out. He doesn’t read him the riot act or lecture him for having questions. No—eight days later, Jesus walks right through the doors, stands in their midst, goes straight to Thomas, and meets him exactly where he is. He says, “Put your finger here and see my hands.”

Jesus offers His wounds. And what does Thomas do? He doesn’t even need to touch them. He falls to his knees and delivers the most powerful, absolute confession of faith in the entire New Testament: “My Lord and my God.”

In our first reading, Saint Paul tells the Ephesians—and he is telling us today at St. Michael’s—that we are “no longer strangers and sojourners, but you are fellow citizens with the holy ones and members of the household of God, built upon the foundation of the Apostles and Prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the capstone.”

Thomas is a cornerstone of that foundation. His struggle, his grit, and his fierce loyalty to the truth are part of the bedrock we stand on.

My friends, we live in a world filled with noise and uncertainty. In life, we face storms, trials, and moments where our faith is tested. Thomas teaches us that true integrity means bringing your questions directly to the feet of the Master. Christ can handle your doubts. What He wants is your heart—honest and true.

As we approach the altar today to receive the Holy Eucharist, we are encountering that very same Risen Christ. Let our prayer today be just as deep, just as bold, and just as faithful as Saint Thomas’s. When we look upon the Lord, let us say with absolute conviction: “My Lord and my God.”

Saint Thomas the Apostle, pray for us.

The Overflowing Fire of Love~The Rev Frank Bellino,OPI

If we are being completely honest, Trinity Sunday is a day that makes a lot of preachers nervous. Too often, it gets treated like an annual, abstract geometry lesson full of dusty definitions and dry formulas, leaving everyone in the pews feeling detached from the mystery. But if we pull back the curtain and look at the real human story behind these scriptures, we find something far more raw, intimate, and urgent. The mystery of the Trinity wasn’t revealed in a pristine, quiet university classroom to scholars who had life completely figured out. It was revealed directly in the trenches of human vulnerability and struggle. Look at Moses in our first reading from Exodus. When he climbs Mount Sinai early in the morning, he isn’t carrying a victory trophy; he is carrying replacement stone tablets because the people had just completely blown it with the Golden Calf. He is leading an exhausted, rebellious, “stiff-necked” people, and he is bone tired. Look at Nicodemus in the Gospel of John. He encounters Jesus under the cover of night because he is terrified of what others will think. He is a prominent religious leader hiding in the shadows, surrounded by intense political and social tension, carrying a heart full of unspoken questions, doubt, and paralyzing anxiety.

The story behind the story is that God deliberately chooses to reveal the deepest mystery of His inner life precisely when we are at our lowest, our messiest, and our most afraid. Many of you walked through the doors of St. Michael’s today carrying that exact same weight. You might be carrying the heavy regret of a recent spiritual failure, like the wandering Israelites, or you might be hiding an overwhelming anxiety in the dark, like Nicodemus. And what is the Veritas—the divine Truth—that meets us in that darkness? On that mountain, God doesn’t descend in the cloud to shout a list of rigid rules, point fingers, or condemn a broken nation. Instead, He stands with Moses and proclaims His very Name, which means He reveals His core, unchanging character: He is a merciful and gracious God, slow to anger and rich in kindness and fidelity. Centuries later, Jesus takes that revelation to its absolute peak for Nicodemus, handing him the master key to reality: “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son.”

This brings us to the very reason for the Trinity—the divine “why” behind this great feast. Scripture tells us that God is love. But think deeply about the nature of love: love fundamentally requires an “other.” If God were a solitary, isolated, single person sitting alone in eternity before the universe was created, He could not have been love, because there would have been no one to love. He would have been a God of cosmic isolation, perhaps a God of raw power or a God of ego. But our faith proclaims something radically different. The reason God is a Trinity is because God is an eternal, dynamic relationship. Before the world ever existed, God was already a perfect community of love. The Father is the one who loves; the Son is the one who is beloved; and the Holy Spirit is the living, breathing bond of love that flows eternally between them. God is a Trinity because God is, in His very essence, an infinite and perfect family.

This is where that profound divine Truth catches fire with the power of the Charisma. Because the inner life of the Trinity is an eternal explosion of love, it simply cannot keep itself contained. Love, by its very nature, demands expansion. God didn’t create the universe because He was lonely or needed us; He created us out of sheer generosity so that His existing family love could overflow and have more people to share it with! That love overflowed into creation, it overflowed in the cloud on Sinai, it overflowed on the wood of the Cross, and it overflowed in a violent rushing wind and tongues of flame at Pentecost. The Holy Spirit is the unquenchable, living fire of that Trinitarian love, and that same Spirit was breathed directly into you at your Baptism. You are not passive bystanders standing on the shoreline, looking at an abstract painting of the Trinity; through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, you have been pushed directly into the dynamic current of God’s inner life.

This is why this Mass is so incredibly important to us today. We live in a culture that is hyper-connected digitally but deeply isolated, lonely, and fractured. People are starving for authentic relationships and belonging. The Trinity is the ultimate community, and God’s greatest desire is to bring you into that divine family so that you never have to walk alone again. As a parish, we cannot experience this divine fire and remain the same. Saint Paul gives us the practical blueprint for living out this Trinitarian life when he exhorts the Corinthians to mend their ways, encourage one another, agree with one another, and live in peace. We cannot do that by our own human grit or willpower, but we can do it by tapping into the active fellowship of the Holy Spirit who dwells within us. The gifts of the Spirit, the praise that fills this church, and the Veritas we proclaim are all meant to turn us into a living icon of the Trinity for a broken world. God did not send His Son into the world to condemn your mess, your past, or your struggles. He sent Him to save you by inviting you out of the shadows and directly into the Fire of His family love. So let’s stop watching from the shoreline. Today, let’s dive deep into the endless sea of His mercy.

​The Fragrance of Veritas: Celebrating the Translation of Our Holy Father, St. Dominic~The Rev Frank Bellino,OPI

On May 24, the Order of Preachers throughout the world pauses to celebrate a unique and profound event in our history: the Translation of our Holy Father, St. Dominic. In the tradition of the Church, a “translation” refers to the formal movement of a Saint’s remains from one location to another. For the Dominicans, this occurred in 1233 in Bologna, Italy, twelve years after St. Dominic’s death. Under the supervision of Blessed Jordan of Saxony—Dominic’s successor—and in the presence of numerous friars and dignitaries, the original modest tomb was opened to move the founder to a more fitting marble sepulcher. It was at this moment that a miraculous, sweet fragrance, described by witnesses as unlike any earthly perfume, emanated from the tomb and filled the air.

​This historical event holds immense significance for the Order of Preachers, Independent (OPI). It serves as the physical fulfillment of St. Dominic’s deathbed promise to his brothers: 

“Do not weep, for I shall be more useful to you after my death than I was in life.” 

The “sweet fragrance” was understood as a divine sign that Dominic’s intercession remained active and that his charism—the preaching of Truth (Veritas) for the salvation of souls—was being blessed and expanded by the Holy Spirit. For the Order, this feast is a reminder that we are not merely preserving a memory; we are participating in a living mission that continues to bear fruit in every generation.

​Within the life of The Order of Preachers, Independent, and all of us who are beholden to St. Dominic, the Translation of St. Dominic offers a powerful spiritual lesson. It teaches us that the “fragrance” of a life lived with integrity and faith does not dissipate with time. As a community, we are called to live in such a way that our actions—our service to our families, our neighbors, and our country—leave behind a lasting legacy of kindness and truth. It also reminds us that “transitions” in our own lives, though they may involve change and movement, are often the moments where God’s grace becomes most visible to the world around us.

​As we honor this feast, we renew our commitment to the Dominican spirit of contemplation and action. Like our Holy Father, St. Dominic, may we strive to be people of the Word, ensuring that our lives are a “pleasing sacrifice” that brings the sweetness of God’s mercy to all we encounter. By standing firm in our faith and our duties, we ensure that the light of Truth continues to shine brightly in our parish and beyond.

The Mercy of the Wounded Word: Touching Christ through the Saints~The Rev Frank Bellino,OPI

On this Second Sunday of Easter, the Octave Day of the Resurrection, we stand in a sanctuary illuminated by a singular, breathtaking reality: the victory of Divine Mercy. Today, our celebration carries a unique weight and beauty as we have just blessed the new images of four giants of our faith—Mary Magdalene, Dominic, Catherine, and Rose. These are not merely artistic additions to our walls; they are windows into the very Heart of Christ that we see in the Divine Mercy image itself. To look upon these saints is to see the diverse ways the Mercy of God breaks through the locked doors of the human heart, transforming fear into fortitude and doubt into a “Preaching of Truth.”

In the Gospel today, we find the Apostles huddled in fear behind barred doors. They were men paralyzed by their own failures, by the memory of their desertion in the Garden, and by the terrifying silence of the tomb. Yet, the Risen Christ does not enter that room with a word of condemnation; He enters with the word of Peace ($Shalom$). He shows them His wounds—the indelible marks of His suffering that have now become the fountains of His Mercy. This is the first movement of our Dominican charism: to recognize that Mercy is the only force capable of walking through the walls we build around ourselves. We see this most clearly in St. Mary Magdalene, the first of our new images. She was the one who stood weeping at the tomb, the one from whom seven demons had been cast out, and yet she was the first to hear her name spoken by the Risen Lord. Her life proves that no past is too dark for the light of Easter morning. As a laywoman, she became the “Apostle to the Apostles,” reminding us that the mission of Mercy begins the moment we allow Christ to call us by name.

As we move from the garden of the Resurrection to the mission of the Church, we look to St. Dominic, our holy Father and the clerical heart of our Order. Dominic’s mercy was a “Mercy of the Word.” He looked upon a world wounded by error and confusion, and his heart was moved to pity. He knew that to love someone is to give them the Truth. Like the Apostles in the Upper Room who received the Holy Spirit to forgive sins, Dominic sought to “forgive” the debt of ignorance by preaching the Light of Christ. He reminds us that mercy is not a vague sentiment; it is a rigorous, intellectual, and spiritual commitment to the salvation of souls. In this Parish of St. Michael’s, we follow his lead by being vigilant in our study and joyful in our proclamation, ensuring that the “Bread of the Word” is broken for all who hunger.

But the fire of Dominic’s preaching found its most vibrant expression in the lives of the laity, exemplified by St. Catherine of Siena and St. Rose of Lima. These two women, as Dominican Tertiaries, took the Mercy of the Upper Room into the streets and the hospitals. Catherine stood before popes and kings, a laywoman with the “fire of love” in her soul, demanding that the Church return to its wounded Spouse. Rose, the first flower of the Americas, found Christ in the wounds of the poor and the marginalized, turning her life into a perpetual sacrifice of praise. They show us that Mercy is tangible—it has hands that heal and a voice that speaks for the voiceless. They represent the “Order of Penance,” a life where the red and white rays of Divine Mercy flow through the ordinary actions of a lay life lived in extraordinary union with God.

Therefore, as we gaze upon the Divine Mercy image today—with the pale ray of Water and the red ray of Blood—let us see the lives of these four saints reflected there. The Water of Truth that Dominic preached; the Blood of Sacrifice that Catherine and Rose offered; and the Joy of the Resurrection that Mary Magdalene announced. Like St. Thomas, we are invited today to touch the wounds of Christ—not just in the bread and wine upon this altar, but in the wounds of our neighbors here in San Antonio. We are sent forth from this Mass not merely as observers of Mercy, but as its conduits. “As the Father has sent me, so I send you.” Let us go forth, then, with the courage of Magdalene and the zeal of Dominic, to be the living images of Divine Mercy in a world that so desperately needs to hear: “My Lord and my God!”

In Vigilance and Joy.

Truth in the Tomb~The Rev Frank Bellino,OPI

How many times have we heard the story of Lazarus? For many of us, the number is likely in the hundreds. We know the characters: the grieving sisters, the confused disciples, and the Jesus who weeps before he works. But if we treat this as a 2,000-year-old “magic trick,” we lose the Veritas—the Truth—that this Gospel is trying to breathe into us today. If it is just a miracle from the past, it’s a museum piece. If it’s just a “fortune-telling” of the Resurrection, it’s a trailer for a movie we’ve already seen. Through Dominican eyes, we must ask: What is the Truth of this story for a man or woman living in 2026?

Let’s look at this through a lens we rarely consider: the perspective of Lazarus himself. We often think of this as a “happily ever after” for him but think about that for a moment. Lazarus was on the doorstep of the Kingdom. He had passed through the veil; he was at rest. And yet, he is called back. He is made to “turn around” and re-enter a world of dust, pain, and eventually, a second death.

Why? Because the Truth is that our life is not our own. Lazarus was not raised for his own comfort; he was raised for the Mission. He became a living, breathing sermon—a walking protest against the finality of death. His very existence from that day forward forced everyone who looked at him to confront a reality they weren’t prepared for: that the stones we roll in front of our hearts are not permanent. Sometimes, God calls us back into difficult situations—into “stinky” circumstances—not to punish us, but because our presence there is the only way others will believe that light can penetrate the darkness.

Martha warns Jesus, “Lord, by now there will be a stench.” This is perhaps the most honest line in the New Testament. It acknowledges that some situations have gone on too long to be fixed by human hands. We all have “stinky” parts of our lives—addictions we can’t shake, bitterness we’ve nursed for decades, or a paralyzing fear of the future. The world tells us to leave those things behind the stone. The world tells us that once something starts to decay, it’s over.

But Christ stands at the mouth of our personal tombs and demands that the stone be rolled away. He isn’t afraid of the stench. The Dominican Truth is that God meets us exactly where we are “rotting.” He does not wait for us to get cleaned up before He calls us out. He calls us while we are still bound.

Perhaps the most profound Truth for us as a parish and an Order is what happens after the miracle. Jesus says the words that give life, but then He turns to the community and gives a command: “Untie him and let him go.” Notice that Jesus did not wave a hand and make the burial cloths vanish. He required the community to get their hands dirty. This is the mandate for St. Michael’s Catholic Parish/Unified Old Catholic Church. Christ provides the life-giving grace, but we are the ones called to the “Ministry of Unbinding.”

There are people sitting in these pews, or living in our neighborhoods, who have been “raised”—they have heard the call of God—but they are still walking around in burial cloths. They are bound by the labels the world has put on them, bound by the shame of their past, or bound by a lack of hope. As Dominicans and as followers of Christ, our job is to reach out and help peel back those bandages. We are called to be the hands that untie the knots of despair so that our brothers and sisters can truly walk in freedom.

As we move into Passiontide, we realize that the raising of Lazarus was the final catalyst for the death of Jesus. By giving Lazarus life, Jesus sealed His own earthly end. He traded His life for ours.

Today, let us ask ourselves: What stone are we keeping firmly in place? What “tomb” are we hiding in? The Voice that called Lazarus is calling you today. Not just to “live,” but to join the mission. To be a witness to the Truth that in Christ, nothing is ever truly “over.”

The Feast of St Joseph, Spouse of the Virgin Mary~The Very Rev Lady Sherwood, OPI

My dearest Brothers and sisters in Christ,

Today, we come together as the Church to commemorate St. Joseph, the Spouse of The Blessed Virgin Mary, and the foster Father of our Lord and Saviour,Jesus, when he became one of us here upon the Earth.

In the same way in which God, our Heavenly Father, who gives each of us as his children, unconditional love, care, stability and who sets us the standard with which we should strive to live our lives with his holy word in the scriptures, a true Father to each and every single one of us, who only ever wants the very best for all his children.  St. Joseph follows our Father’s example, as both husband and foster father.  He gives us examples which men should follow in their lives. Joseph cared for and provided for the Holy Household. There are many qualities that Joseph had which we could use to be the role model for Christian husbands and fathers. Joseph was a very compassionate man.  We can see an example of this when he suspected his wife of infidelity; he planned to divorce her quietly rather than denounce her publicly and expose her to public shame and penalty.

Joseph was always obedient to God and did what he knew was God’s will without thought or hesitation.  Examples of this are that he kept Mary as his wife; he protected and provided for his family when they had to flee to foreign lands to protect them from danger.

Joseph led a life of deep prayer and was in communion with God, and would always seek out that which was God’s will. God often told Joseph his will using dreams.

Joseph was a provider of care, When Jesus’s life was threatened, Joseph would take them out of danger. He took his family to Egypt and only returned when it was safe to do so, and when Jesus went missing at aged twelve, Joseph went searching for him because obviously, both parents were obviously extremely worried about Jesus’s safety.

Joseph also brought much more to Jesus’s life, he taught him his trade which Jesus worked in for about twenty years, he gave Jesus the love and stability he as any child needs, and was his earthly male role model, which was and still is vitally important for a good father to give any child.

He was a man with a firm faith in God coupled with a resilient personality, who did not complain and was not appalled nor distressed in the midst of trials and tribulations, St. Joseph knew how to face, carry and solve the burden of his vocation, of life’s difficulties and responsibilities with serenity, with complete faith and love, entrusting himself totally and unconditionally to God’s plans.

Sadly not all children are brought up in such a way today, but husbands and fathers truly should seek to follow this sincere man of God in the way they run their lives. Are you married? Do you give all the love, trust and respect to your spouse? Or with stresses and strains do you always argue or not truly make time for each other? If you have children, do you know where they are and if they are safe, or who they might be talking to online? Do you give emotional stability, patience and unconditional love? Do your children see you as the role model they need in a Father?  We should always strive to be as our heavenly Father is to each of us, whether that be to our spouses, to our children, and in fact to all as our brothers and sisters.

While the Gospels do not shed much light on St. Joseph’s life, it is believed that he died before Jesus’ public ministry.

St. Joseph is the patron of fathers, spouses, priests and seminarians. But also, St. Joseph teaches  us so much by his silent example of his life, and just how we should love God faithfully and obediently.

Let us pray:

Blessed St. Joseph, husband of Mary,

be with us this day.

You protected and cherished the Virgin;

loving the Child Jesus as your Son,

you rescued Him from the danger of death.

Defend the Church,

the household of God,

purchased by the Blood of Christ.

Guardian of the Holy Family,

be with us in our trials.

May your prayers obtain for us

the strength to flee from error

and wrestle with the powers of corruption

so that in life we may grow in holiness

and in death rejoice in the crown of victory.

Amen.

Aha!: The Feast of the Epiphany~The Rt Rev Michael Beckett, OPI

Y’all………Today is a big day!  The Sunday closest to 6 January is the day the Church celebrates Epiphany, which marks the end of the Christmas season and reflects on the visit of the Magi, or wisemen, to the baby Jesus.  Our good friends, the dictionary makers, define “epiphany” as a sudden, profound moment of insight or realization, often a spiritual or philosophical breakthrough, where a deeper truth about something is revealed, changing one’s perception.  In more simple terms, it’s an “aha!” moment, or when one realizes something that’s pretty profound, pretty life changing. 

“So,” you ask, “what does this have to do with the wisemen or three kings, or whoever?”  Imma tell ya.  Those wisemen were the first folks outside of the Nativity story to recognize Jesus as Someone Important.  So important that they traveled for quite some time, over long distances, to reach Jesus, and in doing so, let the world know that Jesus was Somebody.

Y’all remember when our dear friend, Ebeneezer Scrooge, had his own personal Epiphany?  Like, BOOM!, a big realization and life change!  He went from being mean and hateful and dreadful to being kind and loving and generous.  That’s what Epiphany is and does. 

Epiphany is about Jesus and his message being available and relevant to people of every age and race. Epiphany is about God made present amongst us and available to all of us to worship and follow. Epiphany is about God’s love and how that love reaches beyond the everyday barriers of race, class, sexuality, political party, or anything else that separates us from each other. 

Simply put and bottom line, is that Epiphany is all about realizing that no matter who we are, what we are, we need to become more.  More loving.  More caring.  More forgiving.  More Christlike.  Jesus himself clues us in to what Epiphany is all about:

Jesus tells us in John 13:34-35, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.  By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”   

We, all of us, need to have this kind of Epiphany every day of our lives.  Every.  Day.  We need to remind ourselves, every day, of who we claim to serve, of how we are supposed to conduct ourselves, of how our own epiphanies have changed us and our lives.  Of the qualities we are required to show:  Justice.  Mercy.  Kindness.  Forgiveness.  Love.  Regardless of anything else that might separate us, divide us, or causes us to see people as “other.”  There is no one on this planet who God doesn’t love.  There is no one on this planet who Jesus didn’t die for.  Period.  Love.  One.  Another. 

And maybe, just maybe, because of the epiphanies in our lives, we can help others to have their own.  Amen.

The Wood of the Manger, The Wood of the Cross The Rev Frank Bellino,OPI

We gather here in the middle of the night, surrounded by darkness, to celebrate the Light of the World. It is a beautiful tradition. But as we sit here, let’s start with a bit of honesty—something we Dominicans call Veritas.

If we were to look at the historical records, the meteorological charts of ancient Judea, or the shepherding schedules of the first century, we would likely find that Jesus was not born on a cold night in late December. Shepherds don’t keep flocks in open fields in the dead of winter. It’s likely He was born in the spring or perhaps the autumn during the Feast of Tabernacles.

So, why are we here on December 25th?

We are here because in the 4th Century, Pope Julius I decided. He looked at a world that was celebrating the return of the sun—the pagan winter solstice—and he said, “No. We do not worship the sun; we worship the Son of God.” He planted the flag of Christ right in the middle of the darkest time of the year to say: The Light has conquered the darkness.

But here is the important part: The date is liturgical. The event is reality.

It does not detract from the truth one bit. Whether it happened in April, October, or December, the fact remains: The Infinite God became a finite infant. The Creator entered His creation. The Word became Flesh.

However, we must be careful not to get stuck in the sentimentality of the scene. We look at the Nativity set, the peaceful animals, the glowing baby, the silent night—and it feels cozy. It feels safe.

But if we look closer, we realize that His birth means absolutely nothing without the Cross.

Archbishop Fulton Sheen once said that every other person who ever came into this world came into it to live. Jesus Christ is the only person who came into this world to die. His death was the goal of His life.

From the very first moment He drew breath in Bethlehem, He was marching toward Calvary.

He was placed in a manger, a feeding trough for animals, signifying that He would become Bread for the world—the Eucharist.

He was wrapped in swaddling clothes, bands of cloth that looked suspiciously like the burial shrouds that would wrap Him in the tomb.

And most importantly, He was laid on wood.

The wood of the manger prefigures the wood of the Cross. You cannot have Bethlehem without Golgotha. You cannot have the Crib without the Crucifix. If He had just been born a great teacher, a great philosopher, or a nice man, we wouldn’t be here tonight. We are here because that Baby is the Victim who would pay the price for my sins and for yours.

So, with that heavy reality in mind, what does Jesus want us to take away from this night?

He doesn’t want a birthday cake. He doesn’t want us to just feel warm and fuzzy for an hour and then go back to our lives.

He wants us to realize why He came.

He saw us in our mess. He saw us in our addiction to sin. He saw us lost in the darkness of our own making. And He didn’t send a representative; He came Himself. He “got a guy”—and that guy was Himself.

What He wants from us tonight is surrender. He wants us to look at the manger and see the Cross, and say, “Lord, if You went to these lengths—from the glory of heaven to a dirty stable, all the way to a Roman cross—just to save me… then the least I can do is give You my life.”

He wants us to leave this church different than we walked in. He wants us to carry the Light out those doors. The world is still dark, just like it was under Caesar Augustus. It needs Light. It needs Truth. It needs you to be the carrier of that Light.

Tonight, let us not just admire the Baby. Let us adore the Savior. Let us embrace the Cross that allowed us to be here.

A Blessed Christmas to you all.

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

The Joy of Seeing the Truth: Advent III~The Rev Frank Bellino,OPI

We light the rose candle today—Gaudete Sunday—because the Lord is near, and our deep, abiding joy is rooted not in fleeting happiness, but in the certainty of our hope. Yet, the Gospel reminds us that even the greatest prophet, John the Baptist, the powerful voice crying in the wilderness, struggled. He was confined, suffering, and sends his disciples to ask Christ the fundamental, agonizing question of truth: “Are you the one who is to come, or should we look for another?” This question, asked from the prison of his doubt, teaches us that faith engages intellectual struggle; the Dominican quest for Veritas begins with the honesty of a difficult question. If the one who prepared the way can doubt, how much more must we, the faithful, admit to our own moments of uncertainty?

Christ’s reply, however, is the very substance and meat of the Gospel. He does not offer a simple declaration, but points to the evidence of God’s tangible action, fulfilling the prophecy of Isaiah: “Go and tell John what you hear and see: the blind regain their sight, the lame walk… and the poor have the good news proclaimed to them.” The joy of Advent is found in recognizing that the desert of prophecy is blossoming into the garden of the Church. Christ is telling John and telling us: Look at the facts. Look at the transformed lives. This evidence—this testimony of grace—is our anchor. It proves that the Truth is not an abstract concept but a living Person, manifested in acts of mercy and the saving power of the preached Word. The certainty of this Truth then empowers us.

This assurance demands the virtue of patience, as Saint James urges in the second reading: “Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord. See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth.” As the Order of Preachers, we understand this patience is tied to our vocation: we preach the Word and trust in God’s timetable for the spiritual harvest. The true Gaudete joy is not found when our trial is over, but in the certainty that Christ’s Word is infallible, and our temporary suffering prepares us for His eternal glory. This promise brings profound peace and transforms our anxious waiting into active, productive hope.

So, how does this apply to your life right now? You, too, are a traveler, a pilgrim on a road marked by both joy and inevitable doubt. Perhaps you feel like John the Baptist, waiting in a personal “prison” of anxiety, illness, or unresolved problems. The Gospel tells you that your response to doubt is not to abandon faith, but to look for the signs of Christ’s presence right where you are. Has Christ helped you forgive a great wrong, offered you unexpected comfort, or inspired you to perform a costly kindness? These are the real-life miracles—the deaf hearing, the blind seeing—happening in your everyday life. Your life, like that of Mary and Joseph who were travelers on a road of uncertain promise, is a testament to the fact that God meets us precisely in our doubt. Let the rose color remind us that Christ has already come, is here now in the Word and Sacrament, and is certainly coming again. Go forth and live this joyful Truth by being a sign of Christ’s presence to every weary traveler you meet!