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If It Weren’t for Bad Luck… ~ The Rev. Jay Van Lieshout, OPI

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“If it weren’t for bad luck, I’d have no luck at all!”   Who has not cried this out in a fit of despair at one time or another?  How many of us may even be thinking such a thought at this very moment?   Feeling at times as if we are plagued by misfortune is really part of being human.  Things sometimes just go wrong and, though events sometimes go without a hitch ending on a happy note, we as humans tend to focus on and hold tight to those events that are less than perfect events in our lives.  Remembering when our actions produced undesirable  results can be a good thing; it is how we learn what to avoid, what not to do or to say, etc; in fact, failures can often lead to  successful and rewarding outcomes.  Yes, we view our failures as bad luck or feel we are cursed in spite of all the good we have in our lives.  Being raised in a Calvinist family I was taught if something goes wrong it was because I was a sinner and God was punishing me.  The larger the mishap, the more dreadful a child I was, for what you sow is what you reap.  From the smallest paper cut to being in pain with kidney stones, it was all part of God’s plan to punish my wickedness; God was vengeful and mean because of our sins and Jesus came to point that out to us.  What a horrible teaching for a child, and what a horrible teaching that still continues today in too many a “Christian” denomination or church.

Such misconceptions of God are not new to modern times; Luke tells us Jesus dealt with similar misguided thoughts and teachings.  When asked about Pilate’s slaughter of some Galileans as they were conducting ritual sacrifices (the implication being they might have been guilty in the eyes of God), Jesus asked if they thought the victims were “greater sinners” than the all other Galileans?  Without delay, Jesus rebuked them saying “I say to you no!  But I tell you, if you do not repent, you will all perish as they did!” (Luke 13:2-3)  Similarly, Jesus asked if the deaths of the 18 killed when the tower of Siloam collapsed was the result of the victims indebtedness exceeding that of the rest of the men in Jerusalem?  Again without delay, Jesus rebuked them saying “I say to you no!  But I tell you, if you do not repent, you will all perish as they did!” (Luke 13:4-5)  Two horrendous events: one the murder of innocent people as a result of hate and bigotry, another, the tragic loss of innocent lives as the result of an accident; in neither was God punishing the victims (and Jesus would know if He was), both were just random tragedies, examples of “crap happens”.  Yet both revealed the delicate and fleeting nature of human life as well as how easily one can suffer a spiritual death over mundane worldly things; Jesus warns to repent now, for tomorrow may not come.

So is all lost?  If we stumble and then quickly die before we can repent and ask for forgiveness, is there no hope?  To quote Jesus, “I say to you no!”    God is our father, and though He can be stern, His love for us in unchanging, unending and boundless.  Luke continues with Jesus telling a parable in which a fig tree has failed to yield fruit for 3 years.  The owner has no patience and instructs the gardener to cut it down.  The gardener knows that sometimes “crap happens” and offers to tend to the tree for a year using a little manure, a little extra attention and, hence, he is giving the tree another chance to bear fruit (with a little help).  This is how God works us in His garden, he sent the Son of  Man to be our gardener, to spare us from the saw, to intercede for us, nurture us with the Word of the Creator, cultivate our souls and help us turn the “crap” that happens in life into fruit for the Father’s Harvest.

Yes, bad things happen to me, to you, to everyone.  Part of being human and being alive is “crap happens”; this is a fundamental fact of life.  What we all must realize is this is not God punishing us, it is not some divine retribution, and it surely is not a canonical license to condemn others or withhold compassion to those suffering “because they are sinners and deserve their misfortune”.  I say to you nobody is undeserving of our compassion and forgiveness.  In fact, many of those who have suffered some of the most horrendous crap life can muster, have turn out to be our most beloved and respected saints-and one even died so that all of humanity could, in turn, live!  So the next time you feel you are getting more than your share of manure just remember, the only difference between a saint and a sinner is a saint will not sling the manure at others, but instead, they use it as fertilizer for the tree of Jesse so that it might bare the largest and sweetest of fruit.

The What’s and Why’s of Lent ~ The Rev. Lady Sherwood, OPI

 

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Lent is a Christian season that is a period of prayer, preparation, fasting and Alms-giving which leads us to Holy Week and Easter.  It recalls the 40 day fast in the desert of our Lord Jesus Christ. Catholic Lent begins on Ash Wednesday and lasts through to the evening Masses of Holy Thursday, although Lenten penance continues until Holy Saturday.  The purpose of the Lenten season is for Christians a time of fasting, self-denial, prayer, spiritual growth and simplicity.

The word Lent comes from the Teutonic (German) word meaning `springtime,` and it can be viewed as a Christian time of spiritual deep-cleaning. It is a season when we as Christians take a spiritual inventory of our lives and of our faith and then the cleansing of those things which only serve to hinder us in our personal relationship with our Lord Jesus Christ and also our service to him.  This being the case, it is fitting and significant that we begin the Lenten season with the symbol of repentance: that of placing ashes mixed with oil on our foreheads on Ash Wednesday.

We must remember however, that our disciplines throughout Lent are supposed to ultimately transform our entire person: Our body, our soul and our Spirit and to help us to become more like our Lord Jesus Christ. St. Athansius, describes this as `becoming by grace what God is by nature.  The idea of fasting during Lent is so that we learn to control particular parts of our lives which require self-discipline and this helps us to be able to sustain this after the Lenten season is ended.

Lent is a very important season and I personally see it as walking the journey together with Christ as part of Christ. I feel it is a blessing to walk with our dear Lord, and to suffer in some ways no matter how small just as our dear Lord suffered for the benefit of each and every single one of us.

I pray that this Lenten season may bring each of us to that closer relationship with our Lord for which all of us as true Christians yearn.

Jesus,The Internet and The Devil ~ The Rev. Lady Sherwood, OPI

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He said, “Go into the world and proclaim the gospel to every creature. (Mark 16:15 NABRE)

We as Christians are commanded by the Lord to spread his word around the world, and with today’s modern technology and the use of the internet, websites such as Facebook are a very useful ministry tool that helps enable us to do just that.

By today’s modern technology, we are able to use the internet to spread the true word and the good news of the Lord’s salvation to many people throughout the world who otherwise may not be in the position to receive this in their lives.

Using this technology, we as servants of God are able to preach the Holy Word, to offer prayer, to give advice, love and support to people around the world enabling us to better serve those who may live in countries or other places where we couldn’t possibly serve them in person.

So whilst posting online certainly has its positive advantages, as we are made clearly aware  in 1 Peter 5:8, that the devil is always prowling around. Let us look again at what we are told:

“Be sober and vigilant. Your opponent the devil is prowling around like a roaring lion looking for [someone] to devour. (1 Peter 5:8 NABRE).

We must be always on our guard as, like we as Christians can use online technology to spread the word and the true love and salvation  of God, the devil can also use it to deceive and mislead us. Not all things that may appear to be Christian posted online is truly of holy nature, and may be merely a trick of the devil.

Posts such as the variety we see almost daily on pages such as Facebook, where blessings are supposedly given if we `like and share` are an example of such unholy works because God’s blessings are granted from his grace, and out of his love for us and this does not depend on whether we have liked and shared online postings.

We must also realise that posts offering blessings of money or other materialistic things are not true Christian works and are devil led.

The Lord our God is not our personal magician, or a magical Genie who is there to grant our earthy wishes and wants of materialism.

Our God and Father is there out of his pure and unconditional love for us and out of his grace and mercy as he wants to give us that true and full relationship with him that will lead to our salvation.

Be watchful online as well as in our daily lives for the deceit and lies of the devil and do not give him the foothold which he so desperately seeks.

 

 

 

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Online Ordination

Based on Second Timothy 1:6-8, 13-14

Today I wish to address the subject of online ‘ordination’ and issues that surround the subject.

So sitting at my desk with my laptop or mobile phone in hand it is so easy to see on the internet just how many so-called online ordained ministries there actually are. I find a site and quickly apply by ticking a few boxes. So this means a person who takes all of five minutes is validly ordained then does it? Well in actual fact, online ordinations are NOT valid ordinations and most if not all  true Churches of God would refuse to accept this type of ‘ordination’.

In today’s world of modern technology, it seems all too easy for people who do not have a genuine calling from the Lord Our God in their hearts and in their lives to become online ‘ordained’ via the internet or by simply sending an email.

True ordination is not something to be taken lightly and is a lifelong vocation of service to God and to his people which needs knowledge, formation and discernment and thus ordination takes much time to realise and this can often take years and which is definitely not able to be done online or via email.

When God calls us in our hearts to his service, he is calling all that we are, heart, mind, and our very soul to serve him with our whole lives.

We are called to be shepherds to God’s people, we represent the Lord on earth until he comes again in Glory. We are called to teach and to guide the Lord’s people to have a fuller and loving relationship with God our Father so enabling them to gain the salvation that only God can give.

Online ordination is not done by the laying on of hands in Apostolic Succession and not to be ordained by Apostolic succession means the person is not receiving the necessary gifts of blessing, sanctification and grace that is passed to us through the Holy spirit.

Let us look at what we are told in Second Timothy 1:6-8, 13-14:

6. That is why I am reminding you now to fan into a flame the gift of God that you possess through the laying on of hands. 7. God did not give us spirit of timidity, but the spirit of power, love and self-control. 8. So you are never to be ashamed of witnessing to our Lord, or ashamed of me for being his prisoner; but share in my hardships for the sake of the gospel, relying on the power of God. 13. Keep as your pattern the sound teaching you have heard from me, in the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus. 14. With the help of the Holy spirit who dwells in us, look after that precious thing given in trust. We are given the gift and blessing of the Holy Spirit through the act of the laying on of hands in Apostolic succession in trust and this blessing and gift is most wondrous and must never be belittled or taken for granted and we need to be in a personal place of true readiness to receive this most wonderful blessing and this is why ordination requires knowledge, formation and true devotion before we even attempt this wondrous, trusted and vital role of the service as the voice of God within the world.

Simply getting ‘ordained’ online usually entails either none or very little training and formation and hence does not give the vital preparation that is necessary and is an issue that can cause danger to the people we are sent to serve. Another very dangerous issue with this type of invalid ordination is the fact that we often serve very vulnerable people who it is our duty to care for and to protect and there are no criminal background or other checks in place so that even those with dangerous backgrounds can use their so called `clergy status` to cause harm to those who are most often those who need us most.

If anyone is online ordained and feels they are truly called into the Lord’s service, contact a true church who will help you to do it correctly.

 

 

 

 

New Year Resolutions, Earthly or Holy?? ~ The Rev. Lady Sherwood, OPI

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So as we enter the brand new year of 2016, we have the gift from God of another clean chapter in our lives and in our relationship with our heavenly Father and also with each other. A crisp new page in our life and faith story ready for us to write upon.

So what should we do? We could follow the footsteps of many who decide to make earthly resolutions. How about deciding to lose weight? How about stopping smoking? Maybe keeping more fit this year? Well these earthly resolutions are fine, but these tend to sadly be forgotten far too easily.

How about seeing this New year as a completely new chance, a blessing of a new beginning in which we can focus ourselves on that fuller and closer relationship with the Father and with our brothers and sisters.

We can use this new beginning to look closely at our relationships and how to apply them even more fully into our lives.

Do we truly love the Lord our God with all our being? Do we truly follow the Commandments about loving God and our neighbours? When we are wronged, do we totally forgive out of love of Christ as we ought? None of us is perfect, each and every single one of us falls down in our faith and with our relationships both with God and with each other, so we can all use this new year as a new start to further become more as our lord wants us to be by looking at these things within ourselves and improving upon them.

So instead of making an earthly resolution this year, myself and my house will serve the Lord. My resolutions will be holy rather than earthly and will be to gain more fully that true relationship both with God and with each of you, no matter where in the world you may happen to be as true love and faith have no earthly boundaries.

So will it be weight loss? Smoking? Keep fit? Will your resolutions this year be earthly or holy? I will be focusing on what truly matters. Will you join me?

Where Is He? ~ The Rt. Rev. Michael Beckett, OPI

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In the time of King Herod, after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea, wise men from the East came to Jerusalem, asking, “Where is the child who has been born king of the Jews? For we observed his star at its rising, and have come to pay him homage.”   When King Herod heard this, he was frightened, and all Jerusalem with him; and calling together all the chief priests and scribes of the people, he inquired of them where the Messiah was to be born.  They told him, “In Bethlehem of Judea; for so it has been written by the prophet:  ‘And you, Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are by no means least among the rulers of Judah; for from you shall come a ruler who is to shepherd my people Israel.'”  Then Herod secretly called for the wise men and learned from them the exact time when the star had appeared.  Then he sent them to Bethlehem, saying, “Go and search diligently for the child; and when you have found him, bring me word so that I may also go and pay him homage.”   When they had heard the king, they set out; and there, ahead of them, went the star that they had seen at its rising, until it stopped over the place where the child was.  When they saw that the star had stopped, they were overwhelmed with joy.  On entering the house, they saw the child with Mary his mother; and they knelt down and paid him homage. Then, opening their treasure chests, they offered him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.   And having been warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they left for their own country by another road.  Matthew 2:1-12 (NIV)

Today we mark the end of the Christmas season – the Day of Epiphany.  We celebrate this day to reflect on the visit of the Magi – the wise men – to Jesus and the giving of their gifts. We reflect on the meaning of this visit of those wise ones to see Jesus.

Epiphany is about Jesus and his message being available and relevant to people of every age and race. Jesus isn’t just a Jewish prophet with an exciting message, but God made present amongst us and available to all of us to worship and follow. God’s love reaches beyond the everyday barriers of race and class; something the Magi didn’t quite get at first.

So Who Were the Magi?

We don’t know much about the Magi from Scripture. All Saint Matthew tells us is that they were “Magi from the East”. Some translations have “Wise men from the East”. The word in Greek refers to priests of the Zoroastrian religion. They came from Persia, the countries now known as Iran and Iraq, and they saw meaning in the movement of the stars. Their visit fits an Eastern pattern of great births being accompanied by momentous events in the sky. Certainly we know of a comet in 11BCE in Gemini with its head towards Leo, seen by many as a symbol of Judah.  We also know of planetary conjunctions in both 7 BCE and 6 BCE which would have added to a sense that momentous happenings were on the way. The Magi would have noticed these things and taken them seriously. But who were they?

One commentator, Brian Stoffregen puts it like this;

“Originally in Persia, Magi were dream- interpreters. By Jesus’ time, the term referred to astronomers, fortune-tellers, or star-gazers.   They were horoscope fanatics – a practice condemned by Jewish standards. We might compare them to people in fortune – telling booths, or people on the “psychic hotline” or other “occupations” that foretell the future by stars, tea leaves, Tarot cards etc. They were magicians, astronomers, star-gazers, pseudo-scientists, fortune tellers…”

Another writer, Nathan Nettleton, puts it like this;

“They were the speakers of the sacred words at the pagan sacrifices. At worst, the term referred to a magician or sorcerer, or even a deceiver. Magi were people whose activities were repeatedly condemned and prohibited throughout the scriptures and were completely anathema to the people of Israel.”

Whilst in English we get the words “magic” and “magician” from Magi, the Zoroastrian religion forbade sorcery. They clearly were looking for a new king and had found meaning in the movement of the planets and stars which led them to come to Israel to greet the new-born king. They journeyed from their homes in Persia to Bethlehem in search of this baby. Instead of angels and visions, we have the image of the Magi following a sign in the skies – in nature – and for a long period of time. The magi see the intentions of God in the skies. This is not new: Psalm 19 tells us that the heavens themselves declare who God is, and that his handiwork is seen in created nature.  “We observed his star at its rising”. The magi know that there is something significant happening.

When did they come?

The Gospel of Saint Luke doesn’t mention the Magi and holds that the Holy Family returned to Nazareth after the presentation of Jesus at the Temple where he was circumcised. It’s probable that Saint Luke didn’t know of this episode in Jesus’ early life. Saint Matthew seems to place the visit of the Magi some time after Jesus’ birth. The Holy Family are in a “house” not in the stable of the inn.  Herod kills all the newborn boys under the age of two years. So it’s likely that the Holy Family had stayed for some time in Bethlehem and the Magi came some time after Jesus’ birth, perhaps as long as two years after.

WHY did they come?

Clearly, the Magi were searching.  The Magi recognized much of the truth of Jesus, who he was and what he would become.  The Magi had a general idea of this God and this King of the Jews, but they didn’t really know who or what they were looking for.  Bono and U2 were criticized some years ago by some supposedly orthodox Christians when they produced a song entitled, “I Still Haven’t Found What I’m Looking For,” which is about searching for fulfillment.  You see, the example of the Magi was that they were searchers, not really knowing what or who they were looking for.  They didn’t claim to have it all but they saw their lives as a journey of discovery. And in that they are an example to us. We don’t know it all. But if we, like them, are prepared to be diligent seekers, then, like them, we may be graced by God’s light, by our own Epiphany.  When the wise men finally found Jesus, we are told that their first response was joy – “they were overwhelmed with joy”. That is what happens when we find Jesus. This is what awaits us at the end of the journey. Next, they paid him homage – they worshiped him and acknowledged Him as King. After the joy comes the worship. That means acknowledging Jesus as King. Jesus as the center. Jesus as Lord. And then, after joy and after worship, comes offering of their gifts. In response to who Jesus is and the joy He gives, we offer ourselves and our gifts to Him.

So my message for today is to dare, like them, to take the risk of seeking, and God may well bless us with our own Epiphanies which transform us, as doubtless the Magi were transformed by what must have been a surprising experience for them as they knelt before the infant Jesus.

So how do you find Jesus? Maybe you can start out like the Magi – with a general idea of God, and a general idea that He is guiding you. Like the Magi, we need to turn to the scriptures. If you don’t read them, you will never really get the specific directions that God is trying to give you. Approach them with the right spirit, the right purpose. Ask for help along the way – the church, we, God’s people, are meant to help you along that way. The wise men knew when they needed to ask someone else for help. And pray. Ask God. When you find Jesus, rejoice. After all, He is God. Put Him in the center of your life. Ask yourself whether what you are doing honors him a King. Offer to him what you have, who you are.

Where can this Jesus be found?  He is with you now.  Won’t you seek Him?  Won’t you recognize Him?  Won’t you let Him fill YOUR life with joy?  Amen.

 

Feast of the Holy Innocents ~ The Rev. Dcn Dollie Wilkinson, OPI

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 Imagine, if you will, that you are a young couple, who, like most young people your age, find out that you are expecting your first child. Whether you have tried to have children, or this is an unexpected gift, doesn’t matter. Just the fact that you will soon welcome a blessed addition to your family, should fill your heart with joy. I have a niece who was told she would never have children, who now has suddenly discovered she is pregnant. I cannot imagine the joy, and fear, this young soon-to-be (hopefully) mother must feel. Yet, I can. After the birth of my first daughter, I suffered a miscarriage. I was blessed to have another child, a daughter, just a couple years later. But I will always remember the loss of my second child, even if I never gazed upon his (or her) sweet face. This is a tragedy that wounds a mother deeply.

     But there is another loss that is even more heart-breaking. I know my niece will welcome her baby boy (or girl) with gratitude and love. Sadly, if this dear child is a boy, he will be taken from her arms before his second birthday. Or he would have, if he had lived during the time of King Herod. Losing a child from miscarriage is hard. But to give birth to a child, then have this precious one snatched away from you, whether by illness, tragedy, or in the case of Jesus’ time, by the decree of a tyrannical king, is almost too terrible to imagine. Yet, it happened to many new parents of this time.

     Today, dearhearts, we celebrate the feast day of those children who were snatched from their Mothers’ arms, as the Gospel tells us, by the very cruel king, Herod. According to Mathew 2:1-18, Herod was “greatly troubled” when astrologers from the east came asking the whereabouts of “the newborn king of the Jews,” whose star they had seen. They were told that the Jewish Scriptures named Bethlehem as the place where the Messiah would be born. Herod cunningly told them to report back to him so that he could also “do him homage.” The Magi found Jesus, offered him their gifts but warned by an angel, avoided Herod on their way home. As detailed in Matthew 2:16, King Herod then ordered all young boys in Bethlehem, who were two years old and under, to be executed in an attempt to kill the baby Jesus. However, an angel warned Jesus’ parents and they fled to safety in Egypt. 

        “Then when Herod saw that he had been tricked by the magi, he became very enraged, and sent and slew all the male children who were in Bethlehem and all its vicinity, from two years old and under, according to the time which he had determined from the magi.”

     Some believe that the children who were killed were the first Christian martyrs. Today, the Feast of the Holy Innocents is celebrated in churches worldwide. It is also called The Innocents’ Day or Childermas or Children’s Mass.

     Today, we offer prayer for those innocent children who were slaughtered. By no fault of their own, by the fact that they were born male, and because a cruel man decided this must be done, these young souls were taken from their parents way too soon. I am thankful every single day for the blessed gift of my daughters. To have a child, whether boy or girl, but to then have someone decree they must be put to death, well I cannot imagine the heartbreak their parents must have experienced. Let us today, and always, remember these young children, the Holy Innocents.

           “Blessed are you, Bethlehem in the land of Judah! You suffered the inhumanity of King Herod in the murder of your babes and thereby have become worthy to offer to the Lord a pure host of infants. In full right do we celebrate the heavenly birthday of these children whom the world caused to be born unto an eternally blessed life rather than that from their mothers’ womb, for they attained the grace of everlasting life before the enjoyment of the present. The precious death of any martyr deserves high praise because of his heroic confession; the death of these children is precious in the sight of God because of the beatitude they gained so quickly. For already at the beginning of their lives they pass on. The end of the present life is for them the beginning of glory. These then, whom Herod’s cruelty tore as sucklings from their mothers’ bosom, are justly hailed as “infant martyr flowers”; they were the Church’s first blossoms, matured by the frost of persecution during the cold winter of unbelief.

St. Augustine

Looking for Jesus ~ Feast of the Holy Family ~ Br. John Carson, Postulant

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The Gospel for today:

Each year Jesus’ parents went up to Jerusalem for the feast of Passover, and when he was twelve years old, they went up according to festival custom. After they had completed its days, as they were returning, the boy Jesus remained behind in Jerusalem, but his parents did not know it. Thinking that he was in the caravan, they journeyed for a day and looking for him among their relatives and acquaintances, but not finding him, they returned to Jerusalem to look for him. After three days they found him in the temple, sitting in the midst of the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions, and all who heard him were astounded at his understanding and his answers. When his parents saw him, they were astonished, and his mother said to him, “Son, why have you done this to us? Your father and I have been looking for you with great anxiety”. And he said to them, “Why where you looking for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?” But they did not understand what he said to them. He went down with them and came to Nazareth, and he was obedient to them; and his mother kept all these things in her heart. And Jesus advanced in wisdom and age and favour before God and man. Amen.

Today we read in the Gospel the familiar story about the Holy family going to Jerusalem for the Passover.  The Gospel tells us that after the Passover, the Holy Family were on their way back to Nazareth, but the Child Jesus stayed behind without his parents knowing, when his parents found that Jesus was not with their relatives or acquaintances, they looked everywhere for him and they found him in the Temple three days later. Mary said to Jesus that they have been looking for him and Jesus replies, “Did you not know that I was must in my Father’s house,”

How do we fit this story into our daily lives?

We are on a journey where our Jesus is to celebrate the Passover in heaven with the whole company of heaven, with the Holy Family at the right hand of God.

We are also sometimes nowhere to be found when Jesus looks for us and sometimes we close the door so Jesus can’t get through. We are sometimes the ones searching for something and sometimes it is Jesus himself that we are look for.

We find Jesus everywhere, but especially in the Father House, the Church. And also in the Sacraments.

Are we going to be found in our Father’s house or as some Bibles say “dealing with my Father’s affairs?”  are we like Jesus, are we dealing with our Father’s affairs, we as Dominican’s are dealing with our Father’s affairs every time we are doing our ministry, every time we say Mass, preaching, helping the poor, visiting the sick and also praying for the needs of the world.

Our Father’s house is everywhere we do our ministry.

At the end of the Gospel we read that Jesus went back to Nazareth, and was obedient to them.

And that is what we are called to do, be obedient unto death.

Finally, let us pray for each other in the world that we live in, and by the example of the Holy Family and the Child Jesus, be obedient to the teaching of the Church and the our Dominican Rule and our Superiors. Amen.

Peace, Peace ~ Br. Chip Noon, Novice

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“In the tender compassion of our God
the dawn from on high shall break upon us,
to shine on those who dwell in darkness and the shadow of death,
and to guide our feet into the way of peace.”

Years ago, I was sitting with my mother in her assisted living apartment, reading the Liturgy of the Hours. My mother, who was the most spiritual and “faithful” person I’ve ever known, wanted to hear what I was reading. So I read Zecharaiah’s canticle, “Blessed be the Lord, the God of Israel…”

When I finished she said, “That is beautiful.”

I had never thought of it like that. Leave it to mothers to show us the way!

In my memory, Christmas Eve is a calm, comfortable, warm…perfect night. From the time I was a young child, quivering in anticipation, through my youth, until now in my old age, Christmas Eve has always…well, almost always…had this aura for me. Cozy, some would call it.

O Holy Night! The stars are brightly shining,
It is the night of the dear Saviour’s birth.
Long lay the world in sin and error pining.
Till He appeared and the soul felt its worth.
A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices,
For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn.
Fall on your knees! Oh, hear the angel voices!
O night divine, o night when Christ was born;
O night, O Holy Night, O night divine!
O night, O Holy Night, O night divine!

Except for one Christmas Eve.

That was not cozy…nor anything comforting.

I remember vividly, to this day, banging on the dining room window with a wooden block, the kind that had letters and numbers on it, banging so hard my mother was afraid I’d break the glass. I can see my father’s car pulling out of the driveway and going up the street, off to the bar, or the liquor store, or wherever he shouted that he was going. My mother, brother, sister, and I were alone on Christmas Eve. I was crying and bereft. And my mother was comforting us.

My father came back from the infantry in World War II a full-blown alcoholic, as my mother told it. And to tell the truth, Christmas Eve was not always calm, comfortable, warm, nor perfect. But as a child, I fell back on the blessings of the season and willed myself into a Currier and Ives depiction of what I wanted in my life.

I made it comfortable. Today I believe that the Holy Spirit helped us through those difficult times, those Christmas holidays that were so fraught with terror for little kids. Because my mother could see what was beautiful in the world around her.  She made it comfortable for all of us.

What’s past is past. And as my wife recently said to me of difficult people, “One way to look at them is that they are just doing the best they can.”

As an aside here, it’s unnerving to think that you have married a woman just like your mother!

There’s a faith that can bring us peace. A faith in God, as with my mother, and a faith in humanity, as with my wife. Faith. We know that on Christmas Eve, the baby Jesus will be born again in all our minds. And that the promise we have heard will be fulfilled. And we know that our children, family, and friends will either be with us or thinking of us this night. And we know the thrill of hope in the new and glorious morn.

So we fall on our knees. We rejoice in the peace of God, which passeth all understanding. And we find comfort in the dark night, the sounds of the carols, the anticipation of friends, family, and the coming of the infant in the manger.

For no matter what we are facing, we can take comfort in the knowledge that God has said to us that we will have no burden that we cannot bear, that there is a calm in our souls, and that tomorrow will bring a new dawn of love and peace.

Merry Christmas!

Lord, thank you for coming to our help in our times of happiness and our times of sorrow. Thank you for giving us the splendor of your presence in the form of a little child. Thank you for the peace which passeth all understanding. Amen.

Rejoice! Rejoice! ~ The Rev. Lady Sherwood, OPI

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Rejoice! Rejoice! Our Gift from God is Born! 

The Christmas tree stands proudly and ladened with beautiful decorations. Christmas gifts of all shapes and sizes surround the tree, all prettily wrapped in fancy paper, tied with an array of colourful ribbons and bows.

The faces of happy children all aglow with excitement as they tear open these gifts on Christmas morning. Oh what Joy! 

But the true gift which came from God Our Father, to every single one of us didn’t come wrapped in fancy paper, this precious gift was not fastened with ribbons and bows.

This true gift of pure love and salvation was born in a lowly stable in Bethlehem and his bed was a feeding trough for animals.

This perfect, wondrous and precious gift came down to us from the heavens to free us from the damnation of sin and to be our salvation.

All this he did for us because of the love Our heavenly Father has for us. Our dear Lord! Who left his throne on high to be born lowly on earth amongst us and who would love us to teach us the ways of righteousness. He loves us to the extent that this lowly yet heavenly babe would later give himself willingly up to death upon the cross to atone for our sins, he did this to save us!

Oh such a truly wonderful gift to us from Our Father, even though we are unworthy sinners! A Holy gift of such perfect love!

This is the true gift of Christmas! The gift of God to you, to me, to everyone.

Let us rejoice! Rejoice! Let us offer the Lord praise and thanksgiving! 

Let us accept anew  in our hearts and in our lives this wonderful and incomprehensible gift of pure love and let us with all the heavenly hosts-Rejoice!!